Sex is a Part of a relationship?

Oh please, life isn't a Korean drama. It's realistic, not idealistic.

 

sex destroys relationship when the girl gets pregnant and the man is not yet ready for parenthood.

 

Dirty secret of any relation.

 

If you think its only in movies then you're wrong.
Sorry if that's the way you think then you're pathetic really.. It seems you just care about sex and not a real relationship.
I know sex is important for a successfully relationship but there is plenty other stuff that are more important then sex.

 

Frankly, I try to be acceptable with this lifestyle with other's. I guess as long as they're not playing people who actually want a relationship and lying to get in their pants and instead sleeping with other's that share that same lifestyle.

 

I don't like to put any religious belief here but what I am going to say is really not about that.

As far as I know, Roman Catholic divides love into 2; Eros and Agape. It says that this 2 will always be together. If it is, then it's true, pure and real love, and if one is missing, then it's not love. To make it more understandable, Eros and Agape is like shampoo and body soap, things we use for bath. If we use the 2, we will end up clean, if we just use 1 from the 2, either shampoo or soap, you will end up only half cleaned.

Eros in Greek Mythology, they say that this love is the Erotic love (SEX). In Catholic, it is the Physical love, while the Agape is the inner love. Agape is the love we feel inside, and to show our love to someone, it is called Eros. (Now you know why it has to go together. Feeling Agape alone, without showing it is not love. Showing Eros on the other hand, without Agape is just a physical desire, or lust) SEX is Eros. An example of Eros. Kissing is also Eros. As well hugging, writing someone a letter, treating your partner to a dinner date and so on.

What I am trying to say is, a real relationship doesn't need SEX just to comply with the completeness of Eros and Agape to say that the love is pure, real and true. There are many ways to show how much you love someone and SEX is one of it - But it's not SEX is the only way.

 

Yup many relationships destroys when that happen, but really i think if you got your GF pregnant, you should take responsibility if to do abortion or keep it.
I hate people that ditch they're own children because they wasn't ready..

 

Okies, since there are people who got other way to satisfy their sexual needs, I will tell you this story:

No sex -> no babies -> no more human race

 

Nobody is saying you shouldn't at all.

 

without sex no humanity...

 

^No one said you shouldn't have sex >_>

 

Putting words into my mouth? Sounds like your sub-conscious desires just spoke out freely.

 

Imo that didn't even make much sense.

 

This reply does not surprise me.

 

Have a deep thought and it will, don't just read the words.

Life is too realistic for the words you've just used. It's actually the hardship of life that holds two souls together. If everything flows so smoothly like ocean, we'll sub-consciously start to test each other's interest and perhaps even seek out a fault to improve between each other, it's our nature to correct others. Relationship without drama is not real, the hardships that life will challenge you will be the proof that he/she is the correct person for you. Not that mellow feeling you feel inside.

Relationships have the same principles as a friendship. We all assume we have these amount of friends that'll be there for us but once you go through shit, you'll realise who the **** really matters for you, the ones that are only there for the giggly moments of life are not your true friend. It's the ones that can carry the heavy load with you. That is when you think: "Yeah... This is the person I want part of my life till our days come to an end". This exactly applies to relationships. For me, sex is the direct way to connect your soul to your partner's soul. That's how I view sex, that is how I view love. Connecting your soul with your other souls (there is a philosophical meaning to that phrase).

 

Just saying... Don't know how a misunderstanding has anything to do with his "desires".

 

This is a hot thread. Let's have an orgy. Where is Aegis when you need him for such things!?

 

I think thats the best ideal i've seen yet. You and I think alike ^_^

 

See what I did there? Derp.
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Oh wow I think that is quite accurate.

But when I strip naked, or am just in my Armani Exchange undies.... thats when a giant circle with "I NEED ****ING SEX NOW" goes riggggght over the entire thing!

Aegis booty = AAA (Triple A) qualitay!