This game breaks relationships.

That's what I said to him. He said he doesn't have anyone else. He also said that he is hurt when I accuse him about that. He just need his time and space.

 

Sometimes we think we are really in love, but consider this, we might also be in love with the idea of "being in love". Most of the time, we go through so many of "falling in love" and, a lot of "break ups" until we really find that someone that is meant to be. Breaking up is really part of having a relationship with someone and a big part of "falling in love". It hurts, I know, because not only that you have put in so much in to that relationship physically and emotionally. It is heart breaking.

Unfortunately, that's just what life is. You either move on and learn something from this or be miserable and feeling sorry for yourself, when you could be having fun and probably end up meeting other people. That's why in relationships, in my experience, I don't just settle for good, he has to prove to me he is worthy of me... heheh..Hope that helps.

 

I know, the title is somewhat harsh to some. Sorry about that. I just got carried away by my emotions.

 

Then he needs to use a better line to break things off...

Honestly, he's playing games with you and you don't need that... Go get yourself someone you deserve.

 

Hmm maybe I need to travel more? To find what I am looking for?

 

You know some people play this game to escape whatever is happening in their real world that they aren't happy with. You said that your ex moved to Canada so your relationship unexpectedly became a long distance relationship. He played Aion probably to make it easy for him to deal with the situation everyday. It's really hard to have someone, commit yourself, and love someone and you can't even hug him/her, kiss and spend some real time with him/her, go out on a date just like normal couples do. What I'm saying is, he tried to make things work as well to both of you, as I can see it since after he moved to Canada it worked for some months, but I guess this time he just felt tired. He is not choosing you over the game dear, it's just, the game was always been there to comfort him from the sadness he feels from the situation so for him to lessen the sadness, he gave you up. I guess, as he gives your relationship up, the more both of you can spend outside and not just in Aion. Have some real life company and not just a game to comfort both of you.

 

I just hope you won't be critical of yourself. It probably has nothing to do with you at all. Sometimes, time away from each other will make people realize, if they are really meant for each other. Don't look at it as negative, it's hard but try not to. Just try your best to respect his decision. If later on he realize what a douchebag he was, he'll apologize to you and more likely try and work it out with you. Let him miss you a little bit. =P

 

Aegis had the best replies in this entire thread.

 

Oh? I got goosebumps reading this.. You think so? Maybe that's the reason, I will heed your advice but not with the dating part though. Hehe. I still love him and I am still willing to wait for him to come back. I guess I'll just mingle with other people now. Thanks.

 

Compliment or insult =O!?!?!

Aegis always makes awesome replies.

 

I hope he "will" miss me. Thanks for the love dear. This is a nice place to express what you feel. I am grateful for all the replies I received. They are all so moving. Thanks

 

Compliment.
Everyone else is handing them tissues.

 

Yes, I think so. Because I've been in such situation before. Playing an online game is somewhat a bonding time for me and my husband when we were far before (this was before we got married so don't think that it was easier for us to stick together though we're far because of marriage). We just been very patient for things to be settled and here we are now, together, loving each other and enjoying each other's company everyday. No one gave up, my husband even found his courage with our situation to want and ask me to marry him.

Just cheer up, clear your head, relax, go to a spa, get a full body massage, I recommend Thai and get a make over for a newer look. Make yourself prettier to catch other guys' attention.

 

what a big loss of that guy!...


hahaha.. you still have us here, where friends here even if you didnt meet in person...

you can lean on our backs... hahahaha

dont worry mate life goes on... it really happens in the real world...

 

What a nerd .

 

demn, your man is a total jerk!! what the hell was he thinkin?!! replacing a beautiful woman like you for a private server??? of which can shutdown anytime??? WTF

 

[video=youtube;MzCLLHscMOw]http/www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzCLLHscMOw[/video]

 

my relationship gone for be playing games online, but i didnt care about it.
after the reason was that she got another than man fking her asss and now i found a better girl!!!


im sorry man for hear this!!!

 

Love is blind.

never surrender, never give up, to infinity and beyond! -Buzz Lightyear-

 

When u get older u'll be like ROFL LMAO ~:love: