I need help , I nearly ruin my life with my own hands!!!

PetromaniaC, i know that anger management class doesnt help a lot... but its way better than nothing.
By the way, perfectsalah, try to talk to her, if u explain urself, maybe she can understand your situation.

 

Actually , i just failed myself by making my previous post.
I'm supposed to accept everything xD' even tho i still believe that those anger management classes are only a waste of time..

 

This and change of lifestyle.

 

LOLOLOLOL.
Woe is me, my girlfriend dumped me, now my heart and soul are black with hatred as my emotions bleed out onto the street D:

Sorry, but seriously, drop the emo shit and take some control of your emotions, stop becoming so angry that it makes you do stupid things, and know when people are just "backstabbers" and not "friends that are ruining your life because they backstabbed".

 

Zee wuz here.
Win :>

 

Seriously?
Lrn2Angermanagement.
Psycho.

 

No man i mean he betrayed me in real life too -,-

 

Teenagers are funny. They always think that its the end of the world..

 

"its not my fault"... werent you the guy who created a thread about cheating/having sex with another girl?

 

Is this the first time you felt such anger that you can't manage to control? If yes, you still have hope and you can still fix it all by yourself. But if no, then you need to seek for a professional help. Take some time to relax, think of all the positive things, and don't let that anger control you.

As of you and your girlfriend, as they say, Do not let your madness speak for you. This goes to you and your girlfriend. You were mad and you told her things that hurt her and you knew it's your fault, and now she's mad, and sad because of what you did and all she wants to happen is to get rid of the feelings she doesn't like. She's making her decision out of her emotions and that's wrong. Apologizing, alone, doesn't make a woman feel better but worse. Apologize, accept your mistakes,and show sincerity. Tell her what you did is wrong and you know it. Tell her that this is the time you need her most and her understanding. Tell her what happened between you and your friends. And if she wont feel any sympathy, then she don't love you enough to stay. Depends on how many times you did such thing. First time? If I were the girl, giving a second chance wont hurt. But if this is like the gazillion times?? Then no more chances for you.

About you and your friends, if you're all a men, try to sort things out by talking. LOL! Who's a man who fights this days with back-stubbing? That is so.. Game of Thrones' era LOL!! Talk it out, why they did it to you. If you all need to punch each others' faces, go for it. Then show up to your girlfriend with black eye, beg her to come back, and you might touch her heart.

Seriously?? F*ck your gay friends!! LOL!

Whatever the result in the end, you deserve it. Make sure you try, and give the best you could give to have back the things you treasure most. So in the end, you will not regret things and ask yourself the what ifs.

 

First off, it seems you have anger issues. Seek help when necessary, it's not something to be ashamed about.

Secondly, learn from your mistakes.

You can only try so much bro, you insulted her, she is hurt. I hope she accepts your apology and comes back, but if you go insulting her because you're angry at something else then you kinda asked for it.

 

keep it up and stay calm, and u see alot of people care about you, so there's no need to be frustrated. Be strong and listen to the advices people give you. U can do it~!
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Instead of writing this on forum u should try and fix it. We all do mistakes but what counts more is how we try to "fix" em.

good luck u , hope u learned and will learn out of ur mistakes

 

your girlfriend is not here ... Shes there waiting for you ... words will not be enough always

 

You need to find a way to control your anger. For everyone there is something else that works but personally, when I'm pissed off I go outside jogging with my earphones on listening to music or simply do any kind of physical exercise, it works quite well for me.

As for the friends, if you want to be on good terms with them once again, I suggest talking things through with them and it should be fine. Or they simply weren't your real friends.. In that case leave them be.

And finally, you need to apologize to your girlfriend for what you've done and said but just a "Sorry" won't do it. You have to explain yourself, for example stuff like at times you can't control your anger and you didn't mean to say these things... come up with something. She will probably forgive you but make sure you don't let yourself make the same mistake again.

 

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lol problem solved grats me ^^