the life itself

it's a dark, dull night here and i actually can't sleep, so i had several thought's about this life. My main question is, why normal guy like me can't afford anything he wants to have, does not this life come only once and you should make everything possible to live as you want? maybe its abit of a kiddish dream but look at this [video=youtube;Cn1d4WNM9LU]http/www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cn1d4WNM9LU[/video], swear my whole life i have not liked anyone yet as i did her, so why should that guy be with her and not me or anyone like me who likes her? how can i achieve something to be at the same height?
Honestly, i came to one conclusion, the life really does hurt a lot, its just a waste of time and there's no point to live. you may spend your life for what? not to be able to accomplish all your dreams? or just why this is world invented desire? why someone should desire something and not be able to reach it? why do we spend wasted hours, pretending all days and in the end we realize that all our efforts went in vain. ( i am not talking about success of your company or success in relationship, just asking this question in general).
(and please dont take that video as if i am a blind idiot, yes i may be jealous of that guy but that video was just an example)

 

Life is like that.. It's hard , you will pass for bad moments , but good moments aswell. And indeed , the girl is cute.

On my opinion , life It's not a waste of time. Everyone gets in bad moments sometimes. That's how life is.

 

btw that siren is beautiful

 

i do understand your point of view but its not about bad moments, its just a questions in general why every desire cant be satisfied? and actually why the hell there is a question "why?"?, jeez i have so many unanswered questions

 

Who says that it can be?

 

no one does, but there's a questions why it can't be? is it really that important for all great things to wear monstrous and terrifying masks, in order to ascribe themselves on the hearts of humanity?

 

you think your gonna find your answers here?

 

If every desire would be completed. They would not be called " desires " Cuz if you would have everything you want, Life would be boring. Yes , you would get what you want , but it would just get boring. Imagine.. A world with everything you want. Woah! The first day , epic! second epic aswell. But imagine in 2 years? Life lost its meaning...

 

kind of i do.

but what is the meaning of life now? do you really prefer suffer over boredom, and no one actually can't predict what might be if all our dreams would come true. and again i ask here, if wonderland is boring, if earthly hell is painful, where is the way? where is the light?

 

Snic snic snic my friend. You're strong in you're willing to accept the truth that life really is meaningless, for all of us. We're just like every other mammal on this planet, difference being we've developed higher brain functions. This isn't really a bad thing, all I'm saying is don't hold yourself against the things you want and question why you aren't allowed to have them. Even in the animal kingdom, they have to work, for survival and for mating purposes. Everything in life you want, you could really have.. you just have to be willing to work for it.


Never expect things to just go your way, living your life solely on luck is a bad idea. Instead, see whats in front of you, in-vision those things you really want and work for them, and keep doing it till you either get it, or until your desires change. We're a greedy type, in that there's things we'll almost always want.. longer life, a better car, in those persons pants.. but, what are you willing to do to get the things you want?

 

Work hard for your objectives. And never give up. That's what everyone should do. Never give up of what you really want. You will reach happiness that way. There are things that are impossible to get or reach. But there are small things on life , that make you smile and laugh. Life can have hard situations. But the meaning of life is , work hard , and happiness will come to you. : )

 

I suggest that you turn off your computer, go to your worm bed and think about how your life could be even worse ( Im not saying that your life is bad, because I dont know you ) and get an advice from someone who is close to you, not the internet

 

then you think wrong

 

And If you cant sleep, you have an expert of sleeping here. its cozo cozo give him some tips for sleeping since ur the master xD

 

oh the answer i really wanted to hear xD and actually i have no idea what to answer you. i always say to myself that i'd give this, i'd give that, but seriously i never had that crucial moment in my life to be on the edge of decisions.

well thank you 1( i really can't sleep, and shortly about myself i live in a happy family, i am not poor but not millionaire as well
and actually i asked this question to a lot people including my mother , but all they answered was" to have a faith in god" in whom i actually dont believe !

 

Well, in what do you believe is not my buisness, but...The answer to all your questions is the live itself Just move on and you will se that life will change and become better. Do not think of the past nor the future, the past does not matter and the future depends on the present which is happening right now

 

you don't have to be on a crucial edge to decide how you want to live your life. you will make things more complicated if you wait for a 'change'
i suggest you to read lots of books. seeing how other people do in life will help you get a more clear understanding of life. take my word and never wait for a change, make it happen

 

Today, here, an extremely famous wealthy person... died in a plane crash. The guy had almost everything, he achieved everything he desired... he had whatever women he wanted, whatever thing he laid his eyes on. And still he ended dead in a circumstance that held absolutely no meaning or purpose.

You just dont know what will happen tomorrow. What your family said "have faith in god" is just that, you just dont know, it has nothing to do with what you believe on.

 

surfing the net and writing on forums won't get you anywhere, go play real life sonic and you'll find someone trust me

 

+10

Everything works for a purpose...

In Bruce almighty movie, there was a scene were people are asking to win the lottery and everyone did and end up getting $1. It's a funny part but God pointed out that everything works for a purpose.

Also need and wants are different things, when I was working as a young professional I can afford anything both wants and needs but when I got married and had kid, only needs comes first and wants goes to my kid and my wants were lost, like playing Aion serves as a pastime, even tho i got Money to donate to have more fun but I can't and I won't. Because of mindset.

I may be talking nonsense to you, but I'm trying to say is assert yourself and excel in your chosen field of endeavor so you will be successfull and diffrentiate wants and needs.


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