Soul Mates... Do you believe you have one out there?

Soul Mates....
Something that everyone is supposed to have, that one person who is out there to be your perfect match, to match you in everything and that is able to be your "better half" in the sense that if you are bad, they are good, and visa versa. This is a topic I haven't seen in the Serious Discussions section, and yes, I did search it. I figured I would throw it out there. I know there are many people who believe that they have found their soul mate, some believe that their soul mate is somewhere in the world waiting for them, and there are some who believe that their soul mate doesn't exist, and that they are either alone in this life or they have to settle for someone who they do not believe is "The One." Some people also believe that they once had their soul mate, but lost them due to a break up or something more tragic.

What I want to know is... What are your views on the topic? Do you believe yours is out there, do you have yours, or did you lose yours? Share your thoughts with the community.

I personally believe I have my soul mate, I believe that the amazing girl that I'm with is The One for me, is the one I'm meant to be with and spend my life with. I believe that she came into my life at the time she did because something pushed us together, at that time exactly, to show us we were meant to be together. There are so many other signs that make me believe we are together, for the way we connect with one another, the amount of things we have in common, our brain patterns being identical to the point where we literally say full sentences at the exact same time word by word.... Creepy at times but adorable. The way we can handle one another through the good times and the bad and the way we are always there for eachother through the tough times shows me that she is the one. I believe she's my perfect match and my better half, the one I'm supposed to be happy, sad, be successful, and totally fail with. I believe she's the one I'm meant to have a family with. I believe she is my Soul Mate.

Now its your turn... share your thoughts!​

 

It might be serendipitous for me to find my 'soul mate'
But no, to me, its just accidentally find your 'soulmate', love him, he changes, everything else changes.

 

of course finding them is completely accidental, but if they truely are your soul mate, they won't change. They're going to be a constant in your life. They won't go anywhere and they're going to be there no matter what and will always be there

 

Expectation: <What you just said>

Reality: Society is stupid. Civilisation is stupid.
If people were really there for you 'no matter what' .. pfft, its impossible if you ask me.

 

I understand what you mean with the expectation... and im gonna contradict myself because i made a mistake in what i said.... people do change, even the people that you're with, but in order for them to be your soul mate, they're going to be there for you through the change and they're going to accept it and cope with it

 

While I believe that you're my soul mate and that I wouldn't feel the same way I feel for you, for anyone else. The mature more experienced, "realistic" side of me knows that it takes a very special relationship to last a life time and even though many want to be the exception and make it, it doesn't happen in most cases which is why there are so many failed relationships and marriages. People change and lives change unexpectedly all the time, both of us have personally experienced that. We also both know that expectations often lead to the biggest disappointments. I'm not going to try to explain why things end and why they last, I don't really know the answer to either. But I'm glad I met you when I did and I feel so overwhelmingly blessed to have you be a part of my life. I'm amazed by you as a person more and more every single day and my feelings for you are a lot deeper than how i've felt about anyone before. You and this relationship give me so much faith and so much hope for the future. I honestly never thought I'd feel like that again after having been in two very serious long term horrible relationships and I'm happy you've brought that hopeful part of me back. I don't know what's going to happen, neither of us can guarantee anything at this point. But I know that you're one of the most important people in my life and I'm going to try my hardest to keep you in it. I love you cutie <3

 

I do believe their are such things as soulmates. I don't believe they're especially made for you, but that over time they grow to be your soul mate. Although, I must say, there are people who just seem to be perfect for you, so I guess that's another way of calling them a "Soul mate" :3

As for myself, I believe I found them.

[youtube]dHjQddxFAQo[/youtube]

 

No.

Because that one person you thought would have stuck with you to the end, through fire, rain and illness can end up one day lying in bed with your best friend.

We're only humans; there's nothing definite about us.

 

I thought I had found my soul mate a few years back ;_; but we stopped talking as much, partly (mostly) my fault so I can't really blame her

 

since you've started a thread like this, I assume you're in love or trying to look for one.

 

Yes .

 

If you read the end of what he says he says he believes in soul mates because of who he is with basically. You should read the other replies also...

 

its as rare as a four leaf clover sometimes poeple go through a life time and never find the person some poeple do and other poeple can't having a soul mate means they'll connect to you instantly almost as if two magnets were pulling into each other just saying some poeple don't believe i kinda do will you find them in your lifetime? maybe not.

The Real Relationship starts after the butterfly feelings start to wear off and if you truly think the person is your soul mate they'ill bring it back each and everytime.

 

GAY! Sooo GAY!

 

I'd say either hurt or lonely

 

No, soul mates don't exist, and by soul mate = someone you're equal in thoughts and actions. Well, if that would happen, no arguing, or small fights would happen, and as most of us know, they are what keeps a relationship fresh and ready for the next step. Also, it makes you not get bored of each other (How would it be to wake up in the morning, and your wife/husband to keep saying things the way you were thinking about them, it just gets boring). You just have to find someone you can share your thoughts with, and yet not to be too similar, yet not too different.

 

ya, i believe in soulmates, i think that with so many people in the world, there's definitely someone out there for you.
meeting them of course is the hard part. so just don't be afraid to take risks, you'll never know until you try.

they don't need to be perfect, as some usually defines what soulmates are. even if they're soulmates, i also think that it takes some work for each partner to make a relationship work. just my thoughts.

 

Nice said ;p

@ me ;p .. i like to think that such a thing exist and i think that i found mine .. illusion or not ... does it actuali matter ?

Luv u Ry <3

 

Yes, it does matter, when the illusion ends, you're going kaboom.

 

I've never thought of 'aw I wanna find my soul mate out there, we're gonna be perfect for each other as long as we find each other! O:'

but I've thought, wouldn't it be cool if I took a peek at the guy I'm gonna marry, if I ever get married? What his name is, what he's like, what he's doing right now =O
HOT.