Moving on from a relationship..

The biggest problem is that for a little while u dont really care about anything when you break up with someone. Its hard to stop thinking about it and its hard to concentrate. But like others said go out, make new friends, try new stuff,.... I have this strange habit of changing my hair color after a breakup =D

Also a quote I like:
You can spend, minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened - or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the **** on. =33333

 

I guess, things like this involving your personal life must not be brought publicly and it has to be shared someone you know you can trust... Just saying^^

 

find a brotha from anotha motha. in normal language find someone who can understand and help you to get over it. FEETS <3

 

Its not like we are disscussing particular personal situations here=)

 

After that you will be a brand new person with:

- STDs
- AIDS
- Screwed up liver & kidneys & lungs
- half of your brain cells left

I'm not trollin'. I'm dead serious.

 

With all seriousness and I guess obvious, my husband is the only guy I have ever spent and spending my most serious relationship ever in my entire life. But when I was still younger, all my ex-boyfriends, they were really nothing though I thank them for all the experiences and lessons I learned. Some are a bit serious, some are just a fling, or for fun. I spent time with them, hang out with them, simply enjoying my life as a teen and as a single. Breaking up makes me feel bad (depends if it's a bit serious) but not to the point to cry for a week or two, making myself depress, lonely, and so on. I think I moved on really fast because I have great real life friends with me and because I knew not to give my all completely. They surely know what to do, what to say to make me forget and wake me up whenever I am asleep with the reality.

I know this topic doesn't really have to be about our ex-boyfriends/girlfriends. When we say relationship, even friendship is included and this, for me is the hardest thing to deal with.

2 years ago, I had a big fight with one of my dearest college friends and it didn't end up pretty well. It's a big and serious fight that even until now, our common friends can not find a solution to help us resolve it and bring the friendship back, which in my opinion is pretty impossible. I think what makes it hard is that, the damages are done and it left scars which is hard to forget. I am very egoistic, and so is she. So the word "Sorry" can not be expected from any of us. I don't want to state here the reason why we ended up our friendship but what I can share is how I moved on:
* First, I cut all my connections with her. From my Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc., accounts and I even blocked her, I changed my cellphone number, deleted her number, deleted all the photos we have together, told my friends to never talk about her in-front of me, nor talk to me about her. Second, I spent more time with my friends, and sibs, I talked to them, asked once if what I did was right, not all of them gave there YES' but some supported me very well with my decision. I also talked to my husband about it and he's pretty all out when it comes on supporting me. Asked my mom about it too, because I wanted to know if what I did was right. She didn't tell me it was the right decision but what she's sure is, whatever decision I made if I am happy with it, then that's the right choice since we do not want live or lives with sadness, depression, loneliness, etc., we live only to seek happiness and contentment in life. I also went to shopping, ate a lot to make me forget about what happened. It served me very well

 

I'm laughing at your avatar. I'm not trolling, I'm dead serious.

 

OMG SAURON! Your funny as hell!! IM DEAD SERIOUS

 

Meet better women. Keep the old one out of your life, stay busy with others

 

Is that chin??? On an airplane, sitting beside Raik?

or am I retarded









Probably retarded.

 

I bet you laughed at me and Merar too?

 

Everyone has their own ways of moving on. Some chooses to stay bitter about it but in my case, I always see it as a learning experience. My mom always taught me that there is no such thing as "forever". It hurts a lot leaving a relationship because of emotions invested in that relationship along with so many other things. But you should also know that, if you lost something it doesn't necessarily mean that life is over, some times you lose someone because they are simply just not meant for you and something far more greater will come that is truly deserving of you. So with that being said, instead of being sad, you should brush your shoulders off, pick yourself up, go out, enjoy life because it's so short and some where a long the way, you just might meet "the one".

I truly believe that everyone of us has a soul mate somewhere out there, some find them right away, or find them when they least expect it. So don't you worry if this relationship ended, your life has not ended, so therefore you are most likely going to find someone else who will make you happy again.

This is for you thread starter! Because I'm emo. Good luck!

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Well i have been in lots of relationships and from my experience you never forget that person not matter how much you want to...moving on is something that will eventually happen to you one day....theres not really a way to justify speeding up the process....sure sex,drugs,alcohol,etc are good "distractions" but at the end of the day right before you close your eyes you will definetly think of that person.....Hate, Love or even Revenge what ever you feel for that person it doesnt matter cuz they will always be in your heart and your mind....the best thing to do is tell your self that things are over for the best....and that the person is not in your life anymore because there needs to be room for the next wonderful person to come into your life...so dont be sad just look at it like that....PS just take it one day at a time......a broken heart can only heal if you let it^^

 

Legatto I miss raiding with you and kyupida. I'm not trolling, I'm dead serious. (hahaha)

no dear, With all due respect Mera deserves you are one cute-beautiful philippina.

 

FFFUUUUUUUUUU Jose. I never imagined that you can make me blush, you!!!!

Yah Sir. I am buying it! HAHA

 

lol, brings up memories...

what i'd do? i'd f*ck her best friend.

 

im a kid..wats cocaine and weed uncle??

 

Find another person and get laid. Just an advice.

 

Meet a better person, simple as that.

 

I'm not trollin, I'm dead serious.

too easy right.

not a better person but someone prettier than the previous one to get her jelly.