Child Abuse .. it's so hard to go on

1.) you should have been prepared for the consequence of your actions.
2.) your fault
3.) physical abuse doesn't hurt that much, compared to verbal abuse, w/c in reality sinks into your brains. especially the f*cking insults infront of many people by your parents.

BoME, it's much painful, being told by your parents that your worthless & every verbal abuse that there is. sadly, i experienced every abuse there is.

 

you are wrong, that's the duty every parent has to carry on, child is not only a result of sex, when a woman is pregnant she has to think about future, starting from the moment she gives a birth ending till she dies, same goes with fathers. ( only with the exception that they dont give a birth). and beating is always not a way to teach someone something, instead, children are having hatred against their parents and always trying to do something against. but it's also fact that every parent loves him/her self in her/his child more then actual child

 

Sir, I can't really answer your question because I haven't been there and I don't kick,punch my child because it is clearly a child abuse. Everytime my child do something very naughty I only scold him and ask what really happen.

 

There is nothing I hate more than people who think everything they've suffered is worse than anyone else and because of that everyone else should just suck it up and shut up. That's just arrogant :sideways:

 

do you consider Slapping=beating a child? No sir it is not called beating a child, you could call the child being beat when the parents are punching,kicking,throwing hard objects to him/her. Slap=NO

 

Some people just read's post and can't even understand what the post means, That's just arrogant.

 

Aw sweetie, there you go again.
You told her she deserved what she got making it seem insignificant and then continued to compare your own situation to hers

Maybe you need to think through what you intend to explain before you post :sideways:

 

1) I dont believe in bullsh't, sorry. I didnt know dad would charge in and slap me.
2) My fault? So it was my fault they hit me? God, since when was violence towards a child the child's fault.
I stand up for what i believe, not for i have to be sarastic about everyday just to eat a fking bowl of rice.
3) Physical abuse is what SCARS you physically. Of course verbal abuse is painful, im not going to even start on that.
Physical abuse can go as bad as your mother digging a broken racket into your fingers, or (idk if its classifie as physical abuse) being held at knifepoint by your mother. Definitely worse types of violence out there
Im sorry, but i was first punched by my mother for being late to school when i was in grade 1 .

If i end up in an asylum, i will die and remember who f'ucked with my sanity

 

if you lived in a slum, maybe you can relate to what im saying, and if you had experienced living in squatters area, you'll see reality.

you and me are different, thus our experiences and environment. BoME <Based on MY EXPERIENCE>, the following lines was referred to the verbal abuse, up to the last line. sadly for you, you see and understand what you only want to.

 

why u so fragile regi.... hope u get better soon *crossing fingers*

 

in my point of view, you case is no longer rare in where i live. inb4 flame. i live in slums. even fathers kill their sons & daughters.

 

Again an example of you being arrogant. You know nothing of my life, where I have lived and what my experiences are and you don't know her's either. I know what BoME stands for but the rest of what you said was completely ignoring the fact that people are only what they experience and they deal with things differently. So for her no this is not insignificant for you maybe yes but it doesn't mean she deserves it and it doesn't mean you were/are worse off. Now gtfo.

 

no wonder you're a Filipino.

 

Because when you go through this for a number of times
You'll become sensitive, at least i will be

 

you could try to find those companies that help children that get hit by their parents or othe simular problems.. they can help you..

btw can i ask the reason he did it to you? your believes i mean

 

w/e, read your post again.

 

I don't see your point Ladien, you can make your own thread about the abuses you have taken in your life. I don't see the point what regi wants with this thread either. Ellexis pretty much gave a good advice that you seek a child counselor. No point in continuing the discussion, it obviously isn't going anywhere good with this recent replies...

 

so u have to slap them? u should maybe get out of the whole 1950 as its 2011 now also then its ok for me to slap u for being noughty aswell.learn how to be a parent b4 u get a child its just pethitic to even slap a child that cant do anything to defend them selfs.

i know english but my writing isent the best but atleast i can speak it fluently u racist and i do it daily.well how do u know its been worse for u? she maybe hasent told everyone how she gets treated by her parents everyday

 

nono regi i meant why are u so physically fragile..
2 slaps and u get so swolen up u cant even pronounce the most simple voice?
anyways, i feel for you girl, get better , wuv u

 

you know what they say, in every action there is an opposite but equal reaction.

your actions, your responsibilities.

w/e consequences may take place. good or bad, IT WAS YOUR DECISION & CHOICE. get my point??