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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by ghost521, Sep 23, 2011.

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  1. ghost521

    ghost521 Lucent's name is Jeremy

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    Being the only of my kind (asian) in a college class can be really nerve-wrecking, but somehow there's always something giving me the incentive to drag my butt to class at 7:30 every Tuesday and Thursday morning.

    It could be the writing assignments I'm given; I love to write. But there's this other thing, which I haven't been able to decide for myself whether to trust in or not:


    There's a girl who's definitely eyeing me in class.


    Okay, not really a "girl". Her tongue slipped during one of our peer editing sessions, and it turned out that she was born in the 80s, although exactly in what year I do not know (I'm sure she's < 25 though).

    About the "eyeing" thing, I made sure that I didn't imagine it due to rushes of loneliness coming at me for the past few weeks or so. My senses were right.



    Now, as for myself, I don't care about ages as I've been interested in older women/girls (you can call it MILF if you like, it's not exactly wrong) ever since I accidentally browsed through my mom's lingerie catalogue (she used to be a tailor,) but I really don't know how to deal with this. I've kind of taken a liking to her, but there's a lot of details that I don't know yet.

    Probably should turn it down. Who knows. Here's some music for the soul.

    [video=youtube;S1ILI0j67jc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1ILI0j67jc&feature=share[/video]​
     
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  2. Aegis

    Aegis Guest

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    Only asian in a class??!?!?!?!?!

    WAT?

    My university.... the white-boi's are like... so not common lol. XD


    ANYHOW O.O more ontopic x3

    I'd say do whatever you feel like :p

    and I love the music <3
     
  3. ghost521

    ghost521 Lucent's name is Jeremy

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    Refer to my newly-updated sig pl0x.

    As for the college, it's not one with a lot of Asians. The majority is made up of Hispanic students.
     
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    Kiwi Old Player (2010)

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    There's only 2 Asian's in my platoon sigh, anyway go for it ^^.
     
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    Lol I agree with it XD

    Dating before 20 is kinda... lulsish...

    It generally never goes anywhere. Even after that point its a bit dangerous XD!

    I do honestly find it a joke... until I find it morbidly disgusting to see them eating eachothers faces @_@ or the cornyness of them holding hands makes me wanna rip my jaws out.


    Or the ones that are cocky cause of it O.O; its like "luls" xD for reasons that are... mean. xD



    Heres what to do:

    Get an insanely awesome GPA, and actually get courses and learn heavy shit... and then mow over them :p they are too busy dating and wasting time on... frivvilous activities XD!
     
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    Deadlychants Rainbow kittens Forum Legend

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    Well you should still be her friend if you can. If it doesn't work out the way you want it to, then you can remain friends.
    Maybe there's more to her than meets the eye.
    It's important to socialize, it's a part of being at college too.


    Edit: I've been with my girl since I was 16, we're more happy now that ever. Don't let Aegis discourage you, he's right in most people don't stick around before 20, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try her if you like her.

    And I did well in school while mac'ing it up, tyvm!
     
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    In most cases :p not all xD

    And socializing... pfft.... D: /anti-frat and etc.
     
  8. Uehara

    Uehara イシ-サマ。(´ε` ) Forum Legend

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    *presses play. listens to the music while replying.

    I am not really good at advising but in my opinion and not saying it's right, learn what you really feel for her more. Make sure that you really like her and not because you knew she likes you so you felt like, liking her - which happens a lot consciously and unconsciously. Because if we knew someone likes us, it makes us feel good and special. Why not right? But as what they say always, Infatuation is always there. Well, at this point in time you can not be really sure so do some thinking and try to know the details you don't know yet about her. Who knows, you might really like her a lot.

    It's good you don't mind girls older than you or much older. It's just the age differs from a normal girl your age would like but the experience, lessons that a MILF will let you learn... Priceless :D
     
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    Lucent Ghost in the shell of a former Drama Queen Forum Legend

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    At first I read this without reading catalogue. Instant "wuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut"

    My advice: get to know her, make a move, whatever you want. If you don't, you'll never know what its like anyway.

    I'll say this, the one time I was uh..with..an older girl (6 years older than me), it was cool in a way but I can't say it was for me. I know I'm mature, I know you're mature, but regardless of maturity people still seem to have a much different personality and interests at a higher age than you would expect. Not counting (bad) party faggots that can't let High school go. At least that's the message I got from her, it was just quickly apparent that there was a gigantic divide between us and it was pretty awkward.

    My experience is only relevant to me, there's no way to tell if this girl you know will be the same, just mentioning how it went for me. I'd still say you should see what you can make of it, and maybe it will be something great for you, maybe it wont but unless you go for it you won't know unless the opportunity presents itself again.
     
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    What uehara said :3
    Also make sure u aren't wrong about her first lol. GL!

    Oh and wut's ur age anyways? By saying milf you make it sound like she's 25< and you're 15> lol.
     
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    not just the song good watch the movie too :3 ^^
     
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    [video=youtube;_yEuqNsuGyM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yEuqNsuGyM[/video] do it and.. ITS ALL OVER FOR ITS ALL OVER FOR YOUUUUUUUUUU.. xD
     
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    well, lemme get this

    theres an asian girl in ur class, and u think she likes u, but u think it weird couse she`s like 25 and ru like xx and u think she`s too old for u? didnt really understand the subject of this topic >.>
     
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    Honestly, you should look at her finger first....is there a ring? :p Lotsa crazy girls out there these days getting married at 21~24. Ya never know, but since you're into the older, more mature girls, you should definitely check that out first. If not, then you should definitely go for it. I know that I never make the first move, so eye contact from afar is definitely my way of showing interest. If you have enough balls, you'll come over and say something. So! Harsh but true advice. Balls = girl... No balls = no girl.

    Yeahhh, sure, it might not work. But hey! You have the rest of your life to find another girl....and trust me there's plenty of them. You seem like a very romantic guy, and girls LOVE that. Especially the older ones :3 cause guys like you are hard to find. Just don't get too down if it doesn't work out in the end. There's always someone else. And don't change who you are for a girl. Ever. If she can't accept you for who you are, it's not meant to be. I wish you the best of luck!
     
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    Lucent Ghost in the shell of a former Drama Queen Forum Legend

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    Hes the only asian in his class, shes not asain, but shes older than him (25 is a guess, but he knows she was born in the 80's)

    Hes pretty sure she likes him, and hes wondering if its worth making a move because of her age or if he should just forget about it.
     
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    TheShaikan Banned

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    oh, now that i understood the meaning of this thread...

    i think u should go for it... idk.

    personally, i wouldnt really give advice for such things, couse im a moron. everytime i see a girl i like or when i know/think one likes me im too ashamed to do a step, and so i lose her.
     
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    instead of just thinking just do it and ask her its not that hard its just words.she can only give u 2 answers
     
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    ghost521 Lucent's name is Jeremy

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    But don't worry, I'm not a broski. I don't even have a six pack for show.
     
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    Lucent Ghost in the shell of a former Drama Queen Forum Legend

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    Lol'd at this and then saw "Polo Shirts" and laughed some more
     
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