Poll of the day o.o

good songs...like em

 

Only sometimes..

 

WHAT

Why are you listening to that crap? Thats not getting you through it, thats making you bawwwwwwwwww

Listen to something regular that will cheer you up, not something that reinforces your current loneliness

I'm not even trying to troll, I'm being quite serious and honest, don't listen to crap that is going to make you upset when you are upset, just listen to stuff that energizes you, get out and get your mind off of what happened. Easy? No, but you don't have to make it as hard on yourself as you are by thinking about how bad it is

 

tbh this is what i listen to when i get depressed

[video=youtube;n1uRHKZCVPw]http/www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1uRHKZCVPw[/video]

 

right now, all i want to do is cry so its my plan for now

 

It's not symbiotic, but yhes.

 

Meh whatever I'm not even going to comment on that, other than to say if you think you can just cry it away, you're slightly wrong ._. Just try to be happy, you can and you'll forget about it, if you try to be depressed you're going to feel like a dead walrus all day

 

2 years and 8 days and still on going

 

its not exactly easy to wanna try feel happy after a breakup, just give him time, everybody has a different way of dealing with it, i use his too

 

how can you just "forget", when you love some1 more then anything in life just to have your heart ripped into pieces for a stupid fu*king reason

 

Ehh, everyone has a different way of dealing with it, yes, but at some point most people have used that method, and it sucks. People that know this try to give advice that it sucks, its just up to those "different" people whether or not they want to learn ;p

 

divorced after 2 years today

 

u look pretty happy bout that o.o

 

Theres a reason some people call them "relationshits" xD

 

cynic all the way

@Ninja try this, might help o.o

http://make-everything-ok.com/

 

Anyway, look, I'm not trying to tell you to just forget anything happened. Relationships ending sucks, theres no doubt about that, and I won't claim otherwise. Apparently I made it sound like that.

What I mean to say is, right now you're raw and bitter about it, and you're being more dramatic than you should be if you want to move on. Crying feels nice at first in those kinds of situations, but you're only going to be in a hole of your own depression. Rest a bit, watch a movie with lots of action or gore or something like that, nothing with love. You wont forget about it, but you won't be like "omg how could this happen", you'll toughen up about it and feel a lot better and happier, and you'll probably realize that if it didn't work, it would've only been worse had it gone on longer.

That kind of stuff. The quicker you make yourself move on, the easier it is to deal with a breakup. Listening to emotional music makes you think, and thinking is just bad in this kind of situation. Trust me, I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm honestly trying to help you move on.

 

i gtg sleep now, 2am, ill read the rest of this tomorrow o.o

 

Boo ****ing hoo. Shit happens and you have to learn to deal with it and not feel sorry for yourself. Let the hurt make you stronger, not put you in a downward spiral of depression. I garentee you you'll be hurt even more throughout your life, it's inevitable.

For example, I had a boyfriend a couple of years ago. I was with him for more than a year and he turns around and tells me he cheated on me with multiple other girls and laughed in my face about it, rubbed it in etc.

Yes, I was hurt. But all I gained was life experence. After sleeping on it that night I felt good as new the follow morning.

Mind you he gave me the illusion of future plans together. Living together, having kids, all that jazz. So it was a hard blow, but I know there's many more years to come of my life. Both heartbreaking and wonderful.

 

i will agree on that,and i will submit 1 more thing after 1 year i was unhappy and when i told her i want to divorce cruing came when i was out down of my house and when i got back i saw her there cruing and beging and finally today for me was the big day and finally i got off of this relationshit

 

Well i was with someone who i really loved for about 4 months (i know it's a short time but i knew it)
I am 23 years old so i am no kid and know what Love is, (kinda)

We split up because she went to Turkey on holiday and got offered a job there and she took it without even asking me how i felt about it or anything.

So we split up and she was back home after a month because she fell really ill and didnt know, turns out that she was 2 months pregnant with my child but we didnt know (we both used protection) and because she was working long hours and drinking/smoking it made her really ill and we lost the baby.

Anyways, we tried geting back together over the next 5 months but due to arguements and money we never met up, come september we both moved to Manchester to go to University and she rang me out the blue and wanted to me (YAY!)

We met up and started dating again, but she just wasn't the same person i fell in love with and we split up a week later.

So i am currently Single and pretty bored because i really enjoy being in a relationship with someone who cares for me, guess i will have to just settle with Aegis

tl:dr - I was in a relationship, didnt work out