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The "Trust"

Discussion in 'Old Threads' started by Frenemy, Oct 15, 2011.

  1. Frenemy

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    Do you trust people who are around you? What makes you trust someone and what makes you lose your trust in someone? How easy or hard is it for someone to make you trust him/her? Do you earn someone's trust easily?

    Discuss~
     
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  2. Zee

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    Two people earned my trust so far along with my blood related mother and father.
    But for those two (four - counting my parents), loosing it would most likely be the hardest task ever in life, since I'd blindly put my life in their hands.
     
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    Interesting. There is certain people around me that i trust. But there is also certain people around me wich im not yet sure if i trust them or should trust them. As for making someone trust u. It all depends on what kind of person u are yourself.
     
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  4. Frenemy

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    Let's face it, most people who we'll meet in life, they will be faking out to be someone else. The question here is what would make you to trust them?

    For example, people tend to used someone's trust in them and abuse that person in any mean. Besides, there are things that make us be blind... for example: love
     
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  5. Zee

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    Very true.
    The only thing you can do is trust blindly since you won't be able to listen to your clear mind in that case.
    If you're lucky, the other participate of the relationship will appreciate it and give her pure attitude without faking...

    Sadly, this happens in only like 20% of all cases.
     
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    trust appears when you know a person longer then enough, so by that you can trust only closest people around you like parents or siblings
     
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    Trust is earned by actions.. and is lost in the same way. You cant be totally sure of anyone ever until those actions are presented, thats why relationships are managed in stages I believe... In any case, no matter the stage you are in a relationship of any kind, trust can always be lost. I guess depending on in it too, it can be a regular lost fo trust or a full betrayal situation.
     
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    ...i would rather trust my enemy than those around me
     
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    My parents and sister.
    I would NEVER trust anyone else.
    Hell I'd be afraid of marrying someone later in life just to have half my stuff taken :p

    Then again I'm in highschool so maybe opinions will change, but not while I'm here.
     
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    I only trust a few people fully, my parents, my brother, and my partner... all of them have completely earned my trust, my parents were given my trust when i was born... obviously, and they will always have it.. no matter the differences that happen between us, no matter what situation may happen, my parents always have my trust and that will never change because they have always ultimately been there for me, even in ways where it hasn't felt like it... They're number 2 on my trust list

    My brother has always always always been there for me, ever since i was little, he's always had my back. He's had my trust for being there when I needed him when i was younger and I know I have his trust as well, its a mutual kind of thing, and He knows where he stands with me and I know where i stand with him... Its a brother thing I guess? but i have another brother and a sister that I don't trust at all... sooooo... haha but He's number 3 on my trust list.

    Number 1 on my trust list is my partner, my wife Nikita. She has had my trust since day 1 that I've met her, something about her made me know I could put everything into her and I knew she would always be there I knew i could put my life in her hands and she would save me if the situation came up. She is the one person i trust over anyone and everyone, she is the one person I will give my life to and I know she will always take care of it. I know that she is the one person I can truly trust... with anything, and I know that no matter what, no matter what happens, she will always be there for me. I know she's my angel and my biggest blessing.I know what she is, she's a full on miracle... and I wouldn't trade her for the world. I love her<3
     
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    Theres a dozen people that have my trust.
     
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    I only trust 1 person and he lives in Egypt and I live as far north as you can get a person. North in Norway.
     
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    I don't trust a girl period. They can pretend to be kind and be in love with you and once you turn your back away they transform into their high school inner self. I trust my 2 brothers and I'll gladly put my life on the line for them, I know they'll do the same.
     
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    Girls can be just friends you know >_>
     
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    I give my trust to anybody who deserves it.. I have many friends.. I trust a lot of people.. I am a worry free person.. I live a happy life.. I don't stress myself to unnecessary stuffs
     
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    wait till you start doing business and moving big amounts of money, I want to see you after that.
     
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    I tend to trust people shortly after i meet them and we have a good conversation. That trust stays until proven otherwise. It doesn't take a lot for someone to lose my trust in them. Usually its as simple as a backstab, or talking behind my back or using some personal information to create drama. Once that has happened, i delete the person from my life. Remove them from messengers, social groups etc.. Won't talk to them unless I need to.

    But it also doesn't take a lot for the trust to come back. I guess that's where I get my big heart from. I rather end nonsense and put a lil trust in them then to keep a rivalry going. In which I tend to sometimes get myself in trouble doing that. We all mess up, so unless the person murdered someone there is always room for a second chance.

    It all depends on the situation and how bad it is for me to lose complete trust in them.
     
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  18. Jayrii

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    trust is like respect.. it should be mutual.. u respect people, you earn respect, you trust people, they will trust you too..
     
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    respect and trust are not the same. Trust = you entrust everything to that person. Respect, you respect that person (doesn't mean you have to trust it) I respect my CMS but I don't trust him okie?
     
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    aw! Im not saying that those words have the same meaning lol


    maybe I just don't see the world so negative that's why I trust a lot of people(on-topic)
     

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