Random poll

I would still go with soup.

 

If someone was willing to compromise and get soup instead of a child I'd go for it xD

Edit: Wow first female to not want kids o.o Wonder who that was.

 

kids are annoying when you don't have the maturity to take care of them and tolerate them... atm i hate kids... rly.. they are annoying as fuck... but i want one after i reach 30 years ++

 

I don't know.. I wasn't really joking.

 

30....? better 50 or 60 . kids are funny, u dont know what u talking about lol. u can t compare your kid with others kids, cuz is not the same ADN. if u are annoying your kid will be also.

 

Don't think it has anything to do with "maturity". It is a rationally justifiable personal preference, not a progression.

Kids are mostly affected by those around them so it is not likely to be you, but other kids around them. My little sister used to be smart, polite and friendly. The moment she started school, she turned into a spoiled brat with no manners, because her classmates were like that.

 

Yea can't tell if you are sad or seeking attention

 

its depends on the situation.if you think this is the right time then go give what he/she really want, as i know if you really love someone you going to give whatever it is just to make them happy, and you cant call family without kid/s but having a kid/s is hard responsibility

 

Seems like @Smartik1 is the one who doesn't want kids, not his friend.

 

I have my 4 year old son , it's ok when you have 2 pc's at home but if not, it sucks becoz he plays on my pc and i can't play my gamezaion , one time i left my account open up and he messes with it and deleted one item.. lol.

 

In general I would agree, however this is way too much of a lifestyle change to just agree to.

Actually neither of us do, but his relationship ended over it. Mine ended because she didn't really want to be with me to begin with (neither of us wanted kids either by the way), she just needed someone to fund her move to London and help her settle in, then kicked me out to replace me with another guy that she met on a different MMO long before we moved here. He now lives in my old room >.>

 

I hate the idea of having kids since i've experienced it one handed when i babysit my cousin. Ever since that experience, i don't like kids anymore.... For now.. but time changes, maybe, just maybe one day, i'm prepared enough to be a father. But for now, i don't like responsibilities. Too awkward when some of my friends have already a family and i'm here sitting, and still playing Gamezaion lol. And yes there are women who doesn't like having kids. I know personally one. But i don't get the quite reason why she doesn't want having one.

 

I should have split up the poll a little more. Instead of just "i would adapt" it should have said from which perspective: want kids but would be willing not to have them or don't want kids but would be willing to have them. Overall I'd say it mostly means willing not to have them rather than other way around since most people voted they want them.

 

The pain and other complications through and after birth are scaring me enough to not want kids. But if I could have a 3yrs old daughter right away I would go for it in... let's say... 10 years. But I would like it to be mine, not adopted so.. yea.
Maybe I will find one in a cabbage in my garden.

 

it depends where you are in the stage of life....and what you want out of life.......very simple actually.
that's why they say married someone with same goals and ideas as you yourself....

 

Have them mix it up in a lab and inject in another woman to deliver it for you Some people actually do that.

I really don't think it is a "natural progression everyone matures into eventually" as you guys describe it. Pretty tired of people telling me I will do things throughout my life like they know me. Been listening to how I'll start drinking since I was 12, similar to smoking, coffee etc. Never done any of those in my life and not going to. Same with kids, just not gonna want them. To me they are an annoying "extra" getting in the way of me enjoying my time with the person I wanna be with

 

haha yeah male kid

 

In vitro fertilization with a surrogate mother.. Rich people stuff hahaha

 

I've , one boy of 13 years and 1 girl of 10 months and i'm very happy with OUR decision to have them.