DAH Poll, yo.

So, i've been going out with a chick for over a year, we were close enough to consider marriage when i get my life together and what not. so that's pretty close if you ask me. So, last july, she cheated on me with her ex. of course i took her back, giving her one more chance since i'm a tool. so recently, like tonight, her ex(another one) came to me and apologized. i asked "sorry for what?" and he said

"your friends told me that you're still together with ****, and.. we did something behind your back. i'm sorry i didn't know! she told me she dumped you months ago. i'm sorry man.."

So, i found out that she not only cheated on me after i gave her a new chance, she told people that she's single too. And on christmas, she had to work and asked me to stay on msn for her, to keep her company. And HE said they "did it" on msn on that day too. So, i didn't go out and have fun with my friends for THAT. lol

no i'm not posting this to get sympathy. i expected this to happen since the first time it happened

But i'm rather clueless about what course of action to take. The option is.. well rather a lot. so i made a poll for you people to "advise" me to take.

#1: Dump the 5 asterisk.
#2: Get some revenge and then dump her.
#3: Talk to her and get her back *cough*tool*cough*
#4: Beat her.
#5: Get uber revenge!!
#6: Do her friends and show her the pictures :O
#7: KILL THE BALAUR!!
#8: Can i get her number?
#9: No really, can i get her number? and maybe msn?
#10: 4chan it.

 

#4 then #3 then #1 then #3 again then #2

 

I'm sure that it would get you a lot of satisfaction to get some sweet revenge on her but you don't need to stoop to her level. Just dump her cheating ass once and for all and be done with it.

 

I ****ing hate you... and at the same time love you. lmfao.


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I voted 4chan, although.. I'd just dump e.e;

 

To be honest, if she's doing that to you, I think it's time you end it with her. If she loved you she wouldn't do that to you, and you deserve much better. So no, don't take her back, let her be someone elses problem. ^^"



Also: 4chan it, but no personal army stuff.

 

buy a gun a kill her

 

Nah i'm not that evil to ask for a raid. but i wont mind some online harassment for the 5 month of deceit. saw it coming but it still sting lol

 

I wanted to vote for Kill the balaur, but I voted for the first one

 

argh i can't rep any of you with a witty comment. D:

 

I think you're better off just getting her out of your life completely. Don't waste your time with the revenge stuff. It will only come back to bite you in the ass in the end.

 

The wise man has spoken*.*

 

but beasty D:

i got the tools for mass ownage :O

but yeah i can't decide @_@

 

Getting revenge can feel good at first, but then it just makes you seem bitter. It's better to just dump her and walk away. Let someone else deal with her.

 

Get rid of her, shes garbage.

I've dealt too many times with pieces of trash that have no issue seducing you and saying everything right... they can be really good... and then they go around behind your back and say the most disgusting of things and abuse it.

It doesn't matter what feelings you have for her, honestly... she is plastic and fake. Everything she said she felt for you is synthetic.

Likelyhood is she will also, after this, say a bunch of cute things like "I didn't do it" or "But you weren't there", etc...


So, best thing to do is ignore that. It's obvious that she is doing trash behind your back and everything has been fake.




AND I KNOW that it will be hard to get rid of her, just because her feelings were false do not mean yours weren't. But in the end this is for the best.... do not settle for someone who clearly has no issue abusing you. Everyone deserves better than that, everyone! Just go out hit the gym, get tanned, get a sweet haircut or something and then look at ways to improve yourself.... and just forget about her (this does not mean litterally forget.. cause that is impossible, but do not do ANYTHING TO/WITH/DO NOT SAY ANYTHING about her if possible! move on!)


I always say the best revenge is success.

 

Sure you may be able to epically pwn her lousy ass, and you'll probably feel great for a little bit, but in the end it will just show that you're no better and just leave a bad situation for everyone. Just tell her that you're done with her shit and get her out of your life for good. Confucius has a saying about revenge. “Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”

If you really want to get revenge on her then I nor anyone else here can stop you, but it won't make things any better in the long run. Just get her out of your life and be done with it.

 

I still say the best revenge is success... to move on and get everything you want and make her jealous as shit and regret getting rid of someone so awesome and kind and thoughtful as who she treated so poorly... it will gouge her not only morally but it will make her feel like she gave up the grade AAA meat just to become sloppy leftovers.

 

i hate it when you guys are right when i try to disagree

<3 you guys

and aegis, i like your idea. but eh don't have the privilege to do so. got any alternatives?

and it's hard to forget, i know. but easy to ignore ^^

*edit*

meat wise.. there's a reason why she went for others >_>

i want to wait till we tie the knot. D:

 

That works too. Find someone you really love who loves you the same way, get a nice job, maybe start a family. Meet her a few years later and you can talk about how happy you while you notice how sad, miserable, and lonely she is.

 

Just try your best to improve yourself in whatever way you feel like it, it can be something small or something big... either way keeping your mind on moving forward is always importaint. Maybe take on a new hobby or game super hard... do something to keep your mind off from going back to her.

Exactly ! In the long run it'll end up exactly like this.

 

Just concentrate on your own life right now. Find the right girl, fall in love, get married, start a family, eat healthier and work out, get a job you enjoy that pays the bills. Then maybe down the road you can arrange an "accidental meeting" with her and you can go on about how happy you are.