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I've seriously had enough of this,

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by regiix3, Jan 30, 2011.

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What do i do now?

  1. End life.

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  1. Enciel

    Enciel Proficient

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    well, she did mention that they're already at the stage where her 'rents are chucking chairs at her >_>

    o.o really? the situation's.. worse than I was thinking ._.
     
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  2. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    i wouldnt use the word 'Depressed' <>_<>
    goddamit, wish i was old enough :S

    Edit: *Laugh-crying*
     
  3. snic

    snic Respected Member

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    the only thought of ending ur life is already meant to be in deep depression but time will cure it dont worry :3
     
  4. iamAshuka

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    its 13 pages, can someone summarize the problem for me? :)
     
  5. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    hopefully and eventually
    but it takes around 1 week for me to get over it, the minimum :\
    im sure of it, ive experienced so many of fights similar to this one ^^"
     
  6. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    well, i had a fight with my parents, just mum actually
    and it was one of the worst ones i had
    Included profanity and violence
    mum even chucked a chair at me @_@"

    edit: the fight was so bad, i even thought about ending life.
     
  7. Cropolite

    Cropolite No regrets D:

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    Ending your life is never a solution, despite how good it may seem at the time. If you're going to attempt, and you fail, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Running from your problems, doesn't help either. So, dismiss that completely now and for the future.

    I don't have the best parent in the world either. So, I know where you're coming from. In all the times I've seen my father, we've gotten into a fight somehow. My mom, eh... long story. Rather not share it over the forums either, you can IM me whenever, and we'll talk about that.

    Regardless, do what I did. Push through it all, whatever they throw at you fend it off and keep on moving until you're ready to go out to your own. Take every fight as a lesson. Give yourselves examples on what you should not be every time.
     
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  8. Ashtar

    Ashtar Enraged Ashtarius Forum Legend

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    Abuse is abuse and depression is only one repercussion of it. As she/he has already stated, its been going on for years so he/she needs to contact a professional for help. As a parent myself, I'm quite concerned about this situation.
    Abuse can leave a victim feeling very alone and embarrassed that it is happening to them. For a teenager, needing to contact and actually talk about what is happening is quite mortifying so I hope regiix has the strength to do this.
     
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  9. Cropolite

    Cropolite No regrets D:

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    Oh, definitely.

    Seeking professional help would be great.
     
  10. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    sad to say and to be completely honest ..
    ive actually been in the 'alone and embarassed' situation for some time now
    if that means i have depression or anything ..

    ^^
     
  11. Ashtar

    Ashtar Enraged Ashtarius Forum Legend

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    You can read here about teen depression. Please seek out some help with your situation.
     
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    As I've read the OP , it's hard to give you any kind of personal pieces of advice since I do not know what was the subject of your arguement with your parents .

    If you want to talk about it , throw me a PM .
     
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  13. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    ohgod .. what have i become? ;_;
     
  14. Ashtar

    Ashtar Enraged Ashtarius Forum Legend

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    - sigh - The mother in me wants to grab you and hug you and tell you everything will be okay. Just read through everyone's advice for you and decide on a course of action. All of us can talk to you until we're blue in the face but having the strength to help yourself is something only you can make a decision on dear.
     
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  15. Cropolite

    Cropolite No regrets D:

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    I wants hug too o.o;
     
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    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    awww ~ <333
    well i guess the only choice available for me is to Resist, im not old enough, its almost impossible to talk to mum about this let alone talk to a professional
    Im not even a teen yet, an already going through all this
    gosh, arent i fortunate ?

    Edit: but right now, i gotta cry all these emotions out before the next lot comes ^____^
     
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    To the 19 people that said end life, I hope you were kidding, if not I'll be around with angry mobs and torches verrryyyy soon. Vous etes mort.

    To regii, I love you dear <3 don't even think about it, plenty of people have already given you great advice, so the best thing I can tell you is listen to them, they're right. And take the fact that this has gotten to so many pages as a sign that people really do care about you, we love and are here for you in best way we can be. ^^
     
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    Actually it is kinda hard when there is as big fight between children and there parent's, things can also go way to far meaning it also can turn into physical abuse which does take its toll on the child.
    I for one can relate to what Regiix3 has posted as i too spent 15 yrs of my childhood which i never saw as it was spent fighting with parents most of which was physical abuse.
    It got so bad that i did actually try to take my own life 7 times and failed, at the time i thought it was my only option as most of us do its just one of those spare of the moment things.
    Eventually i plucked up enough courage and strength to stand upto both my parents which in its self was a mission and a half so to speak.

    I managed to go and find someone that could help me to get away from all this rage/abuse at home, things did start to look brighter after this happened. And to this day i'm greatful to the lady that did put a stop to all of it and we still keep in touch to this day.

    I will say this Regiix things do look bad now but they will eventually pick up again you just gotta be strong and if needed go out and find someone like i did to help even if its only to talk to them every little thing helps.
     
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  19. regiix3

    regiix3 yeah Forum Legend

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    i.. I .. i.. I REALLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY.
    Words cannot describe what im feeling right now
    im absolutely speechless
    i cannot ..just oh my goodness Ada,

    /emotionalMoment
     
  20. FadetoBlack

    FadetoBlack Veni, vidi, vici, reliqui

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    good thing you posted here and not /b/ D;

    I'm sure things will start looking up, everyone has parent troubles. Just try to persevere :D
     
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