[POLL] Need some opinions.

Okay, so as most of you know (not that it's of major importance anyway) I am back in Vietnam for this summer vacation. Most of it will be being laid-back and enjoying the free time I have left before moving on to college.

However, there are some things I need to take care of. One of them involves delivering gifts to the people I know/admired/loved/etc, and one of them is my ex-girlfried, who I didn't have many opportunities to make her happy.

Actually, let's be frank: I ****ed up a lot.


So while I'm here, I'm planning to give her a gift like others also. I know that it doesn't do much, but I'm being sincere doing this.

Now there's a problem with this: I don't have her house address to deliver the gift to. Having recently contacted her little sister (who hasn't considered me an ******* yet,) she told me that she can't give out the address, no matter how discreet she has to be, and I understand that. It took so long for her sister and her to make up and know each other more (although it's not my fault at that time,) and I don't want to drag her into this thing again because of me.

But that doesn't mean I can't get her address. I know people who know her, and are willing to give it to me after I explained it to them.

Problem is: doing this can be a dick move to her little sister also. I'm willing to bet that no matter how many times I'm going to explain that it isn't her sister who gives out the address, she's still going to doubt it.

So I'm going to ask you, the people I can share this with without being discovered by the people who are going to ruin things: should I, or should I not do this.

 

are the parents around ?? maybe a nice word to them could change all this around, speak to her father, the man of ther house, explain to him your feelings etc and that you wish to speek to his daughter and have a gift for her. Not saying this will work but it shows respect to him and there is a good chance.

GL

 

That's more like I'm proposing something to him, and I believe - no, they definitely will chew me up if I do that.

Plus, I'm trying to avoid meeting anybody in her family, AMAP.


Thanks for the thought, though.

 

Things of the past are things of the past. No, if I were you I wouldn't do it.

 

Does she have facebook?

 

Some things just belong in the past . I wouldnt send her any gift...would bring back memories.
Anyways good luck with ur decision , u should know best what to do , u know her ^^

 

you're trapped in the circle of love, even fix it or break it good luck with your adventure

 

She does, and she blocked me.

Also, I can't access facebook in VN. Gov't censored it.

 

Wow, talk about against all odds. In all honesty judging from the posts I've seen, I'd avoid this person to prevent another Vietnam war. If fate brings you an encounter, that would be the moment.

 

And the old wish of turning back time keeps spinning around.

 

I'm curious now, what did you do >.>?

 

You know, kid's stuff. We were both immature at the time, and I was the worse one.

Let's just pack it into one simple, concise word: blames.

 

Sounds like PVP. Well good luck with that choice you make. I would probably avoid the person but at the same time, I am a type of guy that intends to prove to people that has a poor opinion about me, to show that I've changed or that there is no reason to think badly of me. She could still be a hater and be mad at you, but it's better to show you have matured into a man. At least she wont live her life wondering you're still the same ass as before.

 

dude My personal opinion, Leave her the **** alone. Reason? its simple: Once your out of a female's life everything changes and if she hasn't contacted you yet, means she don't give a **** about you comprende? I don't mean to be a dick but is the truth. Try it and you'll see how you'll fail at it ^^. Good Luck.

PD: Is jut my opinion, Move on bruh, tons of "chocha" around.

 

I wish I could. If I decide it's going to happen, it will be really hard to show my good intentions.

Yes, I understand what you mean. Thanks to you too

 

Why does your post kind of looks like a last thing to do before i die

Besides did u never visit her house when u were dating XD?
If u know her last name and all u can look it up on the phonebook/internet or whatever~

 

Leave her alone. Dx You'll probably only leave her with bad memories, when she has/is trying to move on.

Sounds like things went bad between you two. So bad that she doesn't want any contact with you. Learn from it, but respect her wishes to not have any contact with you if thats what she desires.

As the all-wise Nujabes said: If fate brings you together, then that would be the time to try and talk whatever you need out.

 

I salhl sapm tihs terhad.