The Curse of Money and Greed

Have you ever liked this person like... a lot and see yourself with her for the rest of your life and all the thinks about is money? She could be charming, loving, caring and interesting but she just has that defect, Money.

I don't have a problem with money myself, I have a healthy pocket BUT I haven't found someone who looks at me for what I really am and what I really like to do, in the end females over 20 always look at your income therefore pretending to be someone they are not just to get along with you and leech the life out of you.


/Discuss

 

luckily, i'm still too young and haven't met such a woman.. i think it's just normal for a woman to look at your income but not depend her "love" on it.. i mean if she would be your wife, she should love you, for richer or for poorer.

 

Well it wasn't money since I'm broke lol in my case it was a sexual relationship anyone that knows me well knows that sex is the last thing I care about in a relationship( bash me if you must could care less that's just my opinion )

 

It's because you are shallow Saurron. You think in a very shallow way of women... not all of them want the money, but if you think they do then you have alot to learn yet

 

in contrary boys do it too...loving girls like part of a game..which wen they got bored they just find new thing for them to be excite....
its same as a toy that they will play it for now and leave if they found new toys...

^^

 

The best way to find women when you have money is to never say you have money.
Alot of the times your gonna find that if you find a girl and you make her believe that your just an average guy they wont as for much.
When you feel comfortable enough shower them with gifts and you can let them know that your financially well.
But try to get girls by flashing your cash and fancy things youll find girl who will fall for your money not you ^_^

 

Agree

I've been on relationships that the only thing that kept them going was sex all day.

you can't judge someone on the internet without knowing them in real life. I do have my vices (Craiglist :3) and I avoid relationships because my profession doesn't permit me.

you have a point there..

Its not like I'm flashing my account balance to every girl I meet, but I do like to drive my Rx-8 and wear good cloths @_@.

 

so you do really have a healthy pocket. xD that's more prone to golddiggers so i suggest you pick someone whom you've known for a long time and you know that money is not the one she love.

 

its just like gambling to win a love.....
if u gamble on the right one then u find ur true love
and if not its ur lose....

thats why it has so many concepts about love...

 

Hey big guy how are things down range? Assuming you are still at camp victory. If you swing by camp slayer please give my regards to the that gung-ho gate guard (no names obviously but you will KNOW) in the form of a sift punch to the throat >:[ (probably gone by now but still)

I think the issue you are describing reaches further than your income in this case. I get a lot of the same apprehension just due to being in the air force - people will put on a show to get what they want... thinking it's a free ride. I don't think it's constricted to gender either. Males and females in successful positions will be sought after by users. You just have to take things at arms length and try not to fall into attachment before you see the face under the mask, so to speak.

It's very hard at times, for me at least, to be so careful with relationships. There are situations which can incite an extreme need or loneliness that will cause you to overlook things that would normal be red flag indicators of something amiss.

Advice I was given that works well thus far - assert that your finances are never going to be joint property. Try to find people that are financially stable themselves as it is often a strong indicator of great long term relationship qualities. At the same time, don't discount people due to hardship as that is kinda elitist @___@

The th;dr of this I suppose is that you need to be slow and cautious with people at first. It's an unfortunate fact that people will seldom be real and show who they are readily. The more normal they seem at first - the more they are likely trying to hide

 

yea the feeling when you come back as a civilian after being overseas its... complicated. I'm not in camp victory anymore I just put that location because it was my first deployment and it was... pretty rough. I went on convoy to camp slayer (Flintstones village is pretty cool) lots of officers and high ranks there lul you don't wanna mess anything up.

 

Well it also kind of depends on whether the girl is a hardworking one or simply a lazy one..

 

yeah my last commitment exactly like that she did a lot of hurting but i resist them all because i loved her so much. better be careful you cant choose easily the right one but you can completely know her before saying great. thats why friends to special someone always the best! ;3

 

Find girls in your same lvl. Otherwise you are just a tempting bone

 

keep gambling bro :3 oneway or another its hard to find someone who isnt after for money though :3...

 

arent you an LT? QQing about money?

 

^ dat : >