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Gamez Aion Dating Advice

Discussion in 'Old Threads' started by butter, Nov 27, 2010.

  1. VelvetSkye

    VelvetSkye Getting there

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    I agree with you. A man like him doesn't know what loving is. Yet the best way for him to learn this would be the pain of loss.
     
  2. Ashtar

    Ashtar Enraged Ashtarius Forum Legend

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    It's how I met my husband as well. We've been together 5 years and married for 4 in March.
    I think it all depends on the people though. There are some truly disturbed one's out there for sure.
     
  3. chin

    chin haters be hatin'

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    sounds like what happened to me and my x. we were in a relationship for 5 years x_x

    we broke up like a month ago and i took the huge step of breaking up with him cause its going nowhere. he dint want to as well but i managed to convince him otherwise. you should do the same. i know its hard. took me a while to decide what im going to do. yes youll cry yes youll miss him but the longer you stay and wait the harder it will be for you to leave him. so think about it. but if i were you id totally dump him. making you wait like that is nuts but i think he's just scared to face you and hear what you have to say.


    but thats just me. <3 good luck
     
  4. Ryccard

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    you can go ahead and move on with or without closure... you have better things coming in your life. there is a saying, " when a door closes, a window opens up as an opportunity ".. i can relate to this issue as well coz my girl was on the same situation...
     
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    long story cut short, ur better off moving on. in alot of occasions, chasin after someone and begging will only make them grow more distant to u. alot of people doesn't notice that when things go bad and do w.e they think is the right thing to do. the most u can do now is send him a text msg sayin "thanks for everything, bye". if he really cared bout u or had any feelings he'll start thinkin of memories with u and he'll come back to u, that is if u allow him to. dont look back and keep moving forward and one day u'll meet someone great. heres a song for u that i just happen to b listening xD if it gets depressing then sorry i didnt mean for it to b >.<

    [youtube]YT4LqGAZkZI[/youtube]
     
  6. Sasuchan

    Sasuchan 오빠, 믿어도 되지, OK~? ;) Forum Legend

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    Stop wasting your time for someone who doesn't even give a damn about you.

    What goes around, comes around.
    The time will come for him when he'll be in the same situation like he did to you.

    You deserve better.
     
  7. chin

    chin haters be hatin'

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    ill keep this in mind too <3 haihai rhin <3
     
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    i think girls are now courting the boys^^
     
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    u need more bon jovi dude :3
     
  10. butter

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    Thank you all for the wonderful replies, honestly it is all wonderful to hear from you all. Honestly, this advice has been way better than those dating sites that supposedly help people... I wound up getting trolled and that I felt bad for myself... which is far from the truth!

    Overall I really appretiate the positivity and empathy given to me in this thread... thank you sincerely.

    I've actually decided that I'm going to move on now, this morning he texted me "I want nothing to do with you. Goodbye" and honestly I am relieved now... I can move on without feeling guilt.

    And honestly it was only the guilt and compassion that kept me with him after all that... I am a very altrusic person and it is just my nature... so hearing that he didn't want me actually has let me move on.

    Funny thing is, I'm actually happier than I have been even when I was last with him before he stopped talking to me which was very immature... I am glad I am not stuck feeling bad about someone who honestly never cared about me or my friends or especially my feelings (after the past week, I know he doesn't give a damn how I feel...).

    So thank you all for the advice, I appretiate it so much and I have to say that despite all else this forum was a wonderful source of information and compassion. Things may not have "turned-out", but regardless the happy things said and the positive words helped me make it through the situation.

    Thank you all!
     
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    Keep me in mind too <3
     
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    Move along Move along Like i know ya to...
     
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    begging is never good, also its best to move on and if he wills it hell come back and then itll depend on you to either get back together or just keep going each on their own. but its always better to keep going.
     
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    Alwiz smile when u look at ur self in da mirror!@
     
  16. Sasuchan

    Sasuchan 오빠, 믿어도 되지, OK~? ;) Forum Legend

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    sup sissy ♥
    miss the newlyweds fight in TS :p :p :p

    Raik, don't be jealous. :p :p hahaha!


    and for the thread starter,
    goodluck with the fresh new start. GBU.
     
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    He sounds like one of those douchebag's who don't know how to care for others. Move on, you'll thank yourself in the long run.
     
  18. Caladan

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    Either way, this is just an attention seeking thread. A person does not ask random people over the interwebs in regards to their personal relationship advice. That is your own choice, if you can not make such a decision on your own and think for yourself and walk on your own two feet. Well, then you deserve a cookie!

    In terms of the thread itself, sounds like he's going through depression and doesn't understand how much he means to you. Nor has he earned the right to, and sounds like he is taking advantage of you. Move on and never look back.
     
  19. Royal Glaive

    Royal Glaive Getting there

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    LOL!!!!
    HaHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHH!!!!

    be patient..
    you and i have same kind of story but my ending is much better :p
    keep fight baby!! haha....!!!
     
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    This... is just pathetic.
     

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