how to play this version of aion

oki been playing 2 days now and i dont know how to play this version
it is kinda stupid u get the upgrade stones from chests idk if a monster drops it would be more fun it the did cos now i do not fight i jusr run aournd doing noting but opend box and get kiled by 3 vs 1 enemy with healer full geared tis is no fun then i ty to lern how to make potion true alchemy cant even buy the items i was tol buy from player but i dont have kina to buy form player cos the sell limit so how to play??? it is pvp server so i tink ok i try pvp i get in a 1 vs 1 even get 1 2 3 dead now i got lcuky and player give meh 100 enchat stone so now i have +15 item jeej but stil dont know any ting about the game were to get stuf to be self sufisant and have tings to do like were to farm pve is fun when u have a goal geting item to make beter item etc but no were is infomation on were to go what to kil what drop what so how can i get better ? if maps are used for pvp and not every ting is here how to finde what i need broker dont work so if i want to buy i cant but dont have kina to buy so this dont mater