[New Thread] How were you as a kid?

The story~
I was a born a God among men! Lesser creatures trembled before my very presence! But the foul El'edtisk, followers of my rival God Okulb stole my godly powers from me when I was only two! They trapped my divine essence in my nooki and flushed it down the toilet. Until I can recover my nooki I will remain a weak, fragile, and feeble-minded mortal. For the past 22 years I have searched for it, but to no avail. But when I do find it all shall know my name! I Bluko von Blabergeist the 1st, the genius who divided by zero, discovererer of reverse time travel, creator of the supreme easy bake oven, will rule once again! Stars will tremble, worlds will crumble, and we shall all enjoy most delicious cookies!


The reality~
Kinda mart, kind, shy, a bit chubby, and I used to get hard-ons and not know wtf they were.

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Now it's your turn~

 

I'm still technically a kid, but when I was younger, I was rather shy and dreary.

 

I remember alot of times I would walk in the door and get hit with a belt or a shoe or whatever my dad or mom could grab for no reason at all, so I kept to myself to keep anyone else from getting the same.

 

omg thats terrible

 

Meh, I look back on it now and I dont regret any of it. It made me aspire to be what my parents werent.

 

Really??? How come . . .T_T

 

Mate, this is so terrible =/

Well, I never heard 'I love you' from my mother. As for my dad, never met him coz he died when I was 3.

 

Dunno. My dad had rage issues ever since i was born for some reason, like even the slighest thing would set him off.

I remember one time, I had just gotten the new Donkey Kong game for the GameBoy. I worked mowing lawns and cleaning yards for MONTHS to get it. I seen the commercial and it said something lame like "gonna go kick some asphault" and I said that and my dad snapped, broke the gameboy, threw it out the window, then threw me head first into a wall. Dented the drywall so bad he had to fill it in with plaster and put wallpaper over it to cover the hole.

 

Good thing youre a good person . . ^^

 

my father used to grab me from my one foot, turn me upside down and started hitting me. Mostly because i caused trouble or was fighting with other kids.
When i was telling him good morning he used to insult God or generally heavy insults just because he was enraged 24/7 with problems regarding his job...
Im glad i had like 5 moments i can barely remember that my father treated me well and made me happy(for these 5 moments)
Im glad i turned out a very different person than him...
And i dont keep grudges as now that he is very sick im treating him and taking care of him..

 

Child traumas...? Join the club guys :3

 

Lol bro if i had a child trauma remained i would prolly now go outside in the streets and kill anybody i saw lol...

I believe that a child must have a very strong personality to be able to turn out a good person no matter what his childhood was

 

Good god, you're a man of men.

 

I was actually really skinny as a kid and didn't start to fill out until I started lifting and Muay Thai when I was ten. Other than that I'm pretty much a smaller version of myself only with longer hair.

 

See, the point is, I myself was hit a lot back when I was little, and turned out it helps me a lot. You can say I became mature from my mom and dad's beating. What to do and what not to do, y'know?

So I moved to the US, where hitting kid is prohibited. Bingo. Turns out a small part of kids here are fcking brats. The kind that you WILL want to land a punch on their faces one day when no one's looking.

So I say, hitting in moderation does help to make your kids better people.

 

That for sure, but not I'm talking about being problematic because of your child traumas. We all get over them sooner or later as teens but we will always remember the childhood.

 

Yeah man thats for sure. I will ofcourse raise my hand on my Kids but mostly like a small slap to let them know whats wrong in a faster way xP.
But i will like my kids more than my life so i will deffo NOT do the same things that my father used to do to me...

I stopped muay thai because of the Rules in fights
I continued Jeet Kune Do after that because i was taught how to fight without rules

Muay thai has hard training tho and i liked it. BUt our teacher in JKD did pretty much the same things to harden the body so it was very tense too

 

It's better to communicate with your kids and focus on the cause of their actions instead of spanking or slaping them =]

 

If I'd want to briefly summarize my childhood , I'd say ... lonely and I was always left behind .

 

Shy, kinda quiet and kept to myself mostly.. but I was always pretty happy, well behaved to always got told I acted mature for my age lol.