is this a bug or Punkylove scammed me?

is this a bug or Punkylove scammed me?please help i lost both the abg bow and my accessories....
http://img69.imageshack.us/img69/5237/aion0006t.jpg
here we first trade and its okey
http://img510.imageshack.us/img510/82/aion0009n.jpg
and i recon and the item is still there but the thing is that i still have my accessories as you can see in the screen shots, so i ask him to recon, and she said that its also there, so to think that its a bug i tried to resocket the manastone to attack, and after that i reconnect again and this is what happened both the accessories and the bow is gone
http://img4.imageshack.us/img4/4236/aion0011us.jpg
http://img220.imageshack.us/img220/8827/aion0012c.jpg

GM help..
kind of confusing please return my items the 3 accessories...