New player needs help

Hello
I have a problem and I still don't know how to deal with it
in this server, u can get money really fast (more than 200mil/h)
but to do this u need good gear and SD party
the problem is that new players cant join SD parties cause they don't have good gear, and they can't grind solo cause nothing will sell in the MP
so how can we get money to start the real grind in SD parties
am 118ap/140dp lvl60

 

There are several ways to make money on bdo, depending on your play style. 1. Grinding (with or without sd) 2. Gathering and selling hards/sharps or the concentrated stones made with them (always insta sell) 3. scrolls. The memory fragments from them will also insta sell 4. horse training. you can make a lot of money simply raising horses and selling them to imperial horse trade at the stable

 

The easiest answer to that is to find kind and nice people, which leads me to the terrible realization that after the new influx to our community the toxicity and general hostility in-game has exploded beyond the worse time on the NA-server back in the day when there weren't so many people playing here. It it true that I do not keep an eye on the server chat anymore so it may not be something that is evident to other players, but in general the amount of Elitist and hostile players has grown beyond my understanding.

The GamezBD I know was a place where you could go for an entire week moving together with other players at the most frequently used "farming" sites without ever having to run or fight or get killed for NO reason at all, nowadays I would guess about 90% of players are rude simply because no one answers the general chat, worse of all is the constant fear of other players even when you try to talk to others at the giving site to explain to them that it is in fact in their own selfinterest to team up with others (you get a better drop rate when you are in a party and the more the better) they will usually just run away and never answer your offer to team up OR just outright kill you while you are trying to talk to them.

This mindset is the main reason I left the "official" server, because people became mindless drones just doing whatever the majority of Elitist-gamers did; which is to behave like spoiled-children.
This mindset is lead by this quote: "Mine! Everything in this game is mine because I can kick your arse"
Where did the ENTIRE gaming idea go? This game is built around groups, partying up together, ending in Guilds and siege warfare, so why are people being so blinded by ONE sole way of playing this game?

Look I know I am ranting again and I am sorry to use your thread to do so but it is very much entangled with why you are having problems with getting a good start in the game, the new players that have flooded our community are very welcome however there is a desperate need to the Elistis way of playing games which leaves no room for players who do not support their way of playing or mindset.

 

dont just tell me that i can grind solo XD
tell me more, where and what is the drop that is going to make me money at the given place

 

Hmmm, it is a game that has been extensively written about, now I do know that our server is different than the "official" but most of the information you can find about Black Desert Online will correspond to our server.
So in answer to your question ask around in-game to find a good guild you can be part of (there are MANY guilds who welcome new players WITHOUT requirements) and through the guild you will have people who can guide and help you. Try that or start reading about the game, there is NO simple answer to your question sorry.

 

Log onto discord and scroll all the way down on the left side. There are tons of guides posted to help players out, and even an area where you can suggest one :
https://gyazo.com/ebf55bef814efecb4f3112b1c32b2cf1